New year, new manifesting blog! I’ve been meaning to put this blog out since forever. I either get lazy, too busy, or sometimes in various moods. But this has been way too overdue for me to ignore. Besides, my blog is my magic maker so I need to get my manifestations out.
Of course, I have many goals already in 2023. 2022 wasn’t the best year, but it wasn’t the worst year either. The bad had to do with my job in entertainment and the break up that followed. The good was the new career I gain that offers me flexibility (unlimited PTO literally). And although I don’t expect this year to be flawless, I am really banking on experiencing many highs, much more than the lows. And when I say highs, I want to experience highs that are actually longterm/consistent and not short term. No more trauma, struggles, just real genuine great shit that I will delve into.
Promotion
My biggest desire this year is to receive a promotion. I HANDS DOWN believe this will happen. My firm is simply amazing and I have noticed a huge difference in this workplace more than others. On top of that, I actually like what I’m doing. I’m appreciated, work remotely, and happy to wake up without going through any bullshit. I want to also continue learning about HR and helping out with the cultures in different workplaces. I find myself glowing knowing that I actually love my job. The culture and the mission is something I will be forever be grateful for.
I have a specific number in mind that I will receive this year. I already have an amazing studio for an amazing deal. I appreciate it and will always love it. However, my goal is to make enough that way I can EASILY afford a one bedroom here in Los Angeles. I want to be able to shop for shoes/dresses, spruce my apartment, help my family back home, and save for the future. And although I am doing it now, it’s about time my luxuries move to the next level. I see myself promoted, fulfilled, happy at work, work-life balance, making bank for a 23/24 year old, just proud asf! Unbeatable. Financial abundance in living very comfortably AND to still help out my family tremendously!!!
One Bedroom
I already initiated this point above, however, I would LOVE a one bedroom. And if I got this lucky and blessed with this apartment, I’m going to get lucky and blessed with my next apartment. Windows, natural light, laundry in unit preferred but also on site is fine. Balcony/patio 💖! walkable area with supermarket, target or a chain department store, near me!!! I feel safe, neighbors cool and I don’t deal with robbers or homeless. It’s a steal! Utilities included 🙂 and its rent stabilized. It is mine and precious.
A great apartment with new appliances (stainless steel preferred but new if not an option) and balcony, perfect for walking around, safe, no sketchiness, mall/shopping area near me. An apartment no more that 2300. Anything under, reasonable, but great deal just like my amazing apartment being continently located for a gal without a car. Post office nearby, supermarket across the street, banks near me, weed near me, a fucking metro and a mall!!! Oh, and CULURE!!! I love living in a majority black neighborhood because it makes me feel nostalgic to the diverse NYC. Plus, we got swag here.
And if I got this lucky and blessed with this apartment, im going to get lucky and blessed with my next apartment. THIS YEAR! Windows, natural light, laundry in unit preferred but also on site is fine. Balcony/patio 💖! walkable area with supermarket, target or a chain department store, near me!!! It’s safe, I feel safe, neighbors cool and I don’t deal with robbers or homeless. It’s a steal! Utilities included 🙂 and its rent stabilized. It is mine and precious.
EDIT: I know I can just delete the above, but I like how my thoughts are always changing positively. I’ve grown more attached to my studio these past couple of days. I’m still not against moving out when more money reaches me, but I feel so complete with the space I have now and the memories linked to it. What ever happens to me residentially, I won’t be angry.
Events & Social Events
I’m going to be a Carrie Bradshaw this year with almost having something to do every weekend. And yes I don’t have that much money like Carrie seemed to magically have lol. But I’ve kinda already been that girl doing so already 😏
Still I like being a bit of a socialite. I like going out and dressing up in my heels. I like meeting new people, sparking convos, and experiencing life. I genuinely am living in my 20s enjoying these moments. I manifest more happy times with my friends, wishing them and my family peace and joy!!!! Please cut the drama by 1000%.
Romance
I have really never been lucky in love. In fact, romantic love isn’t the best department in my family. And every year, I manifest an amazing partner who is amazing (though she hasn’t gotten that yet). And although I won’t break tradition, I will however, start off simple: I want to fall in love and be in a healthy, last longing relationship this year. An amazing relationship where I can love, be vulnerable, and my fullest self, while being emotionally safe with the man I am with. And so begins the specifics:
I am going to attract a giver! Someone who invests in me, gives me love, attention, commitment, takes accountability, apologizes, emotions are rational/valid, consistency, dates, deep conversations, COMMUNICATION, bomb sex, considerations, kisses, security, honesty, loyalty, gifts, and reciprocates my bomb energy. I don’t want a guy who lives more in his head about the relationship and lacks the emotional bandwidth/maturity to build on love and consistency. We will love consistently when we are near each other, and he LOVES my goofiness. And he’s not all talk! He follows through his words and he’s about that action. We deserve each other, the best!
His intentions will be clear but healthy for a long lasting relationship. We inspire one another, have genuine connection, instant attraction, chemistry, shared values, morals and he’s open minded, and hot asf. And this point is crucial for me, but this guy I will attract will have a healthy amount of self love AND will be mentally healthy. I’ve been dating men who are mentally not well, and no it does not end up well. I
I’m going to end up with a man who is similar to me in the sense of: has ambition, confidence, his life together, a healthy set of friends, a career, and positivity in life. He listens to me and treats me like a human and not just some trophy or sex doll, and I love him and appreciate him. He’s one of the reasons why I smile in the morning. And everything just feels right. I’m not playing any mental games with him or I’m never met with disappointments. It feels just right and it’s a full on vibe with love and laughter.
Better Health
I have already been at this but I definitely want better health this year. Last year was extremely stressful especially mentally. So I’m going to start therapy again for a refresh and to help me with any struggles for this year. Additionally I want to tone myself a bit more with more exercising , better diet and more walks.
I’m going to have longer and thicker hair (on my head) as well. I ‘m going to smile and laugh a ton more this year. Additionally I’m going to celebrate a lot more this year as well. And I will reference it again, strong orgasms and a happy sex life.
To Sum It All
I really am aiming for a peaceful year. I can already see changes with how this year started and so far I’m proud with how I’ve been handling things and just focusing on myself. I know I’m going to elevate like crazy and have several smiles this year.
At times, I do have my moments of impatience, but then again I always remind myself of the progress I have made. Like I’m really doing well for myself and I know I have a power. And no one is stopping me.
But behind a queen, is someone who just wants to be a princess sometimes. Specifically, not always having this masculine energy of handling everything, being so hyper independent, and being able to trust more and have blessings flow abundantly to me. Not questioning everything, just finding relief that life is providing me with the best so easily and frequently. No trauma (I come from a family of one and I am breaking the cycle), no more job toxicity, no loser/unhealthy men, no money issues, no fake friends. Just the peace, love, thriving energy, victories, generational magic, happiness, authenticity and positive progressions that are currently evolving and multiplying as I type.
